Gay marriage

“In itself, homosexuality is as limiting as heterosexuality: the ideal should be to be capable of loving a woman or a man; either, a human being, without feeling fear, restraint, or obligation.” ― Simone de Beauvoir

Homosexuality is not a sin.What possible reason can there be to hate gays – that isn’t pure bigotry? “We have a book,” the religious proclaim. “And our book is clear, men lying with men, is a death penalty offense.” So what? That was written 0ver two millennia ago – by Iron Age shepherds – who didn’t speak English.

A thought: We don’t use any of their military tactics, medicine, political systems or technology – and they believed in slavery. So why do we pay attention to their stricture on gays?

photoRegardless, if someone chooses to live a “Christian” life that is their option. But isn’t it hypocrisy – at the very least unChristian – to cherry pick the rule book. I’m sure the Christian God would take a dim view of the subject.

However, it is ultimately irrelevant. American law is a law created by Americans. Conservatives rail against Shariah law. I agree. Let’s be vigilant in resisting all religious incursions into American jurisprudence.

If you do not believe in gay marriage – or if you think that homosexuality is a sin – then don’t marry someone of the same sex, or sleep with them. Hooray for your moral purity. You can face your maker in the certain knowledge that you have remained spotless – unless you have a tattoo, or have eaten crab, are wearing blended fabrics, have seen a medium, have cut your hair wrong, have fornicated, committed adultery, or got divorced – or said ‘God dammit.’

Let’s us admit that come the Day of Judgement the moral pure will find few before them at the pearly gates. Whereas the moral suspect’s line for the other place would be interminable. Or perhaps everyone’s destination is the same, except Hell, is the eternal wait for eternal peace – while you can see the few good lolling on their clouds through Heaven’s glass.

Let’s be honest; religion is just another justification for one group of people to tell another group of people how to live. Think not? Then why do ‘Christians’ fee justified denying gays the right to marriage while they claim the right to get divorced – the one marital no-no Jesus identified.

How about a new rule. Christians shall say nothing on gay issues until straight Christians have eliminated, adultery, wife beating, and divorce in the straight Christian community. That way no wisp of hypocrisy shall attach itself to their eloquence.


Is Religious Fundamentalism A Mental Illness?

November 9, 2015

“Don’t hide behind the Constitution or the Bible. If you’re against gay marriage, just be honest, put a scarlet ‘H’ on your shirt, and say, ‘I am a homophobe!” ― Henry Rollins For two days, the National Religious Liberties Conference (NRLC) reminded fundamental Christians that pernicious homosexuals were enemy number one. Kevin Swanson, the conference organizer, […]

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Evangelicals Should Celebrate Marriage Equality. It’s a Return to the ’50s.

June 30, 2015

“The less there is to justify a traditional custom, the harder it is to get rid of it” ― Mark Twain. Evangelicals have come out hard against gay marriage. The obvious, and stated, reasons are that it is unbiblical. And an insult to tradition, mothers, and the American way. But don’t they have it backward? […]

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Really? – 6.2.15 Religious Excesses: Huckabee Fantasizes HS Girls Showers; NC Pastor Condemns HS Gays to Hell; Ken Ham Is Still Nuts; Gordon Klingenschmitt Is Still a Bigot.

June 2, 2015

“Every day people are straying away from the church and going back to God.” ― Lenny Bruce Why are some Christians so full of religious excesses? Since Caitlyn Jenner shed her old Bruce persona, many conservative types have been sniggering. Fox News’ Neil Cavuto couldn’t resist. Yucking it up with his chuckling sidekick, “Charlene, I […]

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Really? – 2.22.15. Selective morality is bigotry; Buying a President; Is Jeb politically dead?

February 21, 2015

“Morality is simply the attitude we adopt towards people we personally dislike.” ― Oscar Wilde If you cherry-pick your Bible you’re not moral, you’re a bigot. In human interaction there will be times when one party feels they got the short end of the stick. In the gay marriage vs. religious businesses debate, either the […]

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There Will Be Gay Marriage – There’s No Reason For There Not To Be.

February 19, 2015

“With all the angst over gay marriage, you would think it was being made – not just legal – but mandatory.” The Supreme Court has seemingly tipped its hand on the constitutional right of gays to marry; it believes there is one. Federal courts have spoken, almost as one, to overturn equal-marriage bans in sundry […]

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Really? – 2.1.15 Huckabee Goes Kosher; Stephen Fry Asks Why God is so Nasty; Texas Teachers Can now Legally Kill Their Students; And Cops Are still Killing Unarmed Men.

February 1, 2015

Mike Huckabee says that  gay marriage for Christians is like forcing a Jewish deli owner to serve bacon wrapped shrimp. It is a specious argument. Nobody is forcing Christian clergy to perform gay marriages. Nor are they mandating that Christians have same-sex marriages. Perhaps Huckabee is alluding to the Christian baker forced to bake cakes […]

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We Claim Civility, But too Often Our Words and Actions Belie That.

January 18, 2015

“A civil tongue speaks the language of masters. An uncivil tongue reveals character flaws of its master.” ― John R. Dallas Jr. Most Americans consider themselves to be friendly and compassionate. Eighty percent of us say we are Christian – and that is a religion of love – right? So why are some of us […]

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Do Religious Beliefs Trump Civil Rights?

January 12, 2015

“Our civil rights have no dependence on our religious opinions any more than our opinions in physics or geometry…” ― Thomas Jefferson There is a conflict in the US between religious beliefs and civil rights – notably in the refusal of business owners with ‘sincerely held religious beliefs’ to cater to gay weddings. Which raises […]

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